Understanding Emotional Intimacy

Sharing thoughts, feelings and needs is the best way to become emotionally close to someone.

Asking questions casually while you spend time together is the best way to get to know someone but do not disclose a lot at a time especially in the beginning.

Here are some helpful ideas:

  • Use “I” statements: I feel sad that I won’t be seeing you until next month instead of.. It’s hard for one to wait a month to see someone they are interested in… . I am happy that you came… vs. You know it’s nice when others show up when they are expected… .
  • Do not evade questions about yourself or joke about it or change the subject to something less personal.
    • What are you doing…writing my biography?
    • Is this psychotherapy 101?

Being friends first is more than a cliche — enjoying someone’s company and becoming relaxed around someone are very important aspects of intimacy.

  • Don’t disclose prematurely — sometimes women do this. Don’t make “confessions” about your job, your ex-wife, your kids etc.
  • “First strive to understand, then to be understood” – Stephen Covey
  • Avoid criticism whenever possible/offer support first and suggestions later if requested: avoid advice unless it is asked for.
    • Support: That must be awfully hard to do… .
    • Advice: Have you ever thought of redoing the plumbing in your house. I know someone who does that type of work.
By © Nancy Wesson, Ph.D.

http://www.wespsych.com/relship.html

Are You Ready To Find Love?

How Accurate Are The Aura Colors?

People comment how amazing the accuracy of the color descriptions are, and how much they validate and confirm their own personalities, priorities, and inner desires. The color descriptions also offer great insight into the personalities of potential life partners.

Does it cost money?

Zero. Zilch. Nada. Simply create your personal profile. Upload photos to maximize your chances of finding a date. Describe your ideal partner. Then LoveColors will get to work finding your most compatible matches. You can also browse the other members by user name, by color selections, or by other qualities. Email or wave to people, choose Favorites, send Friend Requests and more – all for free during the beta testing period.

How To Get Started?

You can communicate with your matches and take full advantage of this unique Internet dating service. Communicating with others is an important step toward finding true love. Begin today by becoming a member of LoveColors! Finding love online is just a keystroke way. Click the links below to get started and discover a deep understanding of your most compatible color personalities.

Are you seeking a Woman?

click here to find love

Are you seeking a Man?

clickherebutton

Healthy Relationships – What Do They Look Like?

  1. Partners can manage conflict and differences without despair or threats.
  2. Both partners protect and nourish the relationship and make it a priority (not addicted to work for example).
  3. Both partners know how to be responsible for own needs and also for the care of the relationship.
  4. Both partners feel “special” to the other. Arguments or fights do not lead to abuse or threatened break-ups.
  5. Both partners can communicate wants, needs, feelings, and emotional issues with little or no shame.
  6. There is unconditional love if not unconditional agreement.
  7. The relationship feels and is nuturing, comfortable, and fun.
  8. Both partners attend to the needs of each other willingly and lovingly.
  9. The sexual relationship works well and is mutually satisfying.
  10. Both partners can and do keep agreements (maturity).
  11. Both partners are honest.
  12. There is no abuse: physical, verbal, emotional (ignoring).
  13. Both partners have boundaries:


    • Each person can say “no” to requests from partner when necessary without feeling guilty and tell their partner when something feels not right or hurts them.
    • People pleasing is kept to a minimum and neither one feels they are making a “great sacrifice” to stay in the relationship. Each person is able to do their work, attend to their children, care for other aspects of their life without threatening the relationship.
  14. Partners can hear feedback from each other that they may be projecting old relationship fears or issues onto the current relationship.
  15. There is commitment: exits are blocked in the relationship.


By © Nancy Wesson, Ph.D.

Are You Ready To Find Love?


Online Dating Website Based On Aura.

LoveColors is an exciting new online dating site – a great new way to find your ideal partner based on your love color compatibility! Sign up now for FREE! Enjoy FULL ACCESS to the site while we are growing our membership. Communicate with members, watch all videos, and more.

This Online Dating Site Works!

More than ever before, finding love online is not only possible, but probable. LoveColors offers a fresh, new approach to matchmaking online by providing fascinating and valuable insight into the true essence of people.

Find & Date Singles Online.

LoveColors is proud to offer a singles dating site that has been created by an expert who has more than 27 years of experience successfully coaching and helping people create, nurture, and preserve their relationships.

A New Free Online Dating Service!

Although LoveColors is one of the newest online dating singles sites, there are already great friendships developing and people finding new love on the site. Watch Pamala Oslie’s helpful videos describing in detail each of the aura color personalities. Love Colors is a free singles dating site that offers a unique and compelling way to meet the love of your life.

A New Way To Discover Love.

Inside you will also find a treasure chest of amazing videos that help you learn insightful, interesting, and helpful information about yourself and others. We at LoveColors believe that the better you know yourself, your personality, needs, priorities, and motivations in life, the more successful you will be finding your most compatible partner.

Online Dating Service Based On Aura Compatibility.

LoveColors is an exciting new way to find your ideal partner. Have you ever felt drawn to some people – you wanted to be near them? You’re feeling their energy – their aura. LoveColors matches people based on the personality traits & qualities of the different aura colors. LoveColors has so much to offer – and right now it’s free during Beta testing!

Get Real Results Fast.

LoveColors members represent a diverse cross section of people around the world. They are people who share common goals; are gay and straight; are your friends, neighbors and co-workers; and who live near and far. LoveColors.com will enable you to better understand your own personality traits and your most compatible match based on your aura colors. There are few free matchmaking online services that offer such thorough insights on personality traits.

Online Dating & Aura Matchmaking.

At LoveColors you can discover your aura colors and what they reveal about you. Learn which aura color personalities are most compatible with you. Learn how to find true love and create a lasting partnership. It’s rare to find a free singles dating site that offers a huge library of video content to support and coach its members through the online matchmaking process.

Sign Up For Free Membership Today!

Answer the Love Colors Questionnaire and determine your personal aura colors. Then read the written descriptions and consult the compatibility chart to see which colors are most compatible with yours. Become a LoveColors member and meet local singles by clicking the red buttons on the bottom of the screen.

LoveColors aim to set new standards for free online dating.

LoveColors members share common dreams and goals; embrace humanity and spirituality; and are seeking a safe, nurturing, progressive Internet dating service. We encourage you to get to know the other people in this community. Search for people with similar or different aura colors, then exchange ideas, experiences, and perspectives with one another.

How Accurate Are The Aura Colors?

People comment how amazing the accuracy of the color descriptions are, and how much they validate and confirm their own personalities, priorities, and inner desires. The color descriptions also offer great insight into the personalities of potential life partners.

Does it cost money?

Zero. Zilch. Nada. Simply create your personal profile. Upload photos to maximize your chances of finding a date. Describe your ideal partner. Then LoveColors will get to work finding your most compatible matches. You can also browse the other members by user name, by color selections, or by other qualities. Email or wave to people, choose Favorites, send Friend Requests and more – all for free during the beta testing period.

How To Get Started?

You can communicate with your matches and take full advantage of this unique Internet dating service. Communicating with others is an important step toward finding true love. Begin today by becoming a member of LoveColors! Finding love online is just a keystroke way. Click the links below to get started and discover a deep understanding of your most compatible color personalities.

Are you seeking a Woman?

click here to find love

Are you seeking a Man?

Senior Sense: Senior Dating, It’s Never Too Late

People are living longer and healthier lives than ever before, and unprecedented numbers of older adults are getting back into the dating scene. With the increase in life expectancy, climbing divorce rates among older couples, and early retirement, these adults are using everything from personal ads to online dating to meet partners. For some the goal is companionship, with others are looking to walk down the aisle one more time.

According to Tom Blake, author of Finding Love After 50, there are over 29 million singles over fifty who are looking for love. His guide on how and where to begin searching for that special someone is just one indication of how thinking has changed regarding society’s view of romance after the first half century of life. Another is the rise of online dating for seniors.

More than a million men and woman over 65 in the U.S. are testing the waters of computer assisted love. Match.com, one of the largest online dating sites, has seen membership of senior singles grow 122% during the last year. Senior Friend Finder, the largest internet dating site for seniors, has 1.4 million members.

With baby boomers waiting in the wings to enter their golden years, they are expected to change the face of traditional dating with their more liberal attitudes about sex, cohabitation and romance. Even AARP, formerly defined by its focus on legal, medical and retirement issues for the elderly, has added an advice column called “Modern Love” to its magazine.

What the numbers and trends tell us is that romance doesn’t retire at 65. Whether motivated by loneliness or lust, finding love later in life is for many as exciting a quest as it was in their youth. The rules have changed and so have the expectations, but finding love at any age is sweet. Some important differences to consider the second (or third) time around:

* Because of social changes, it’s acceptable for woman to take the initiative and ask men out.
* Reduced working hours (or none at all) provide flexible dating times and greater possibilities for travel with your newfound companion.
* There is no age limit to enjoying sex. In a recent study of 1,300 men and women by the National Council on Aging, over 60% reported that sex in their sixties was as satisfying or more satisfying than it was in their forties.

Jane Juska wrote A Round-Heeled Woman, which chronicles her romantic escapades as a senior female looking for physical love. She says, “Dating is just as terrifying and interesting, risky, fun and exciting at seventy as it is at twenty-six.”

So how do you start? Relatives, friends and coworkers are still the best way to meet people. But if these avenues yield no contacts try singles groups, dating services or online dating (see Resources at end of article). Some services provide screening and try to connect clients with similar backgrounds and interests. Fees vary but the general rule is the more consulting and personal attention the service provides, the more expensive it is. Some run in the hundreds of dollars.

Online dating, while cheaper, requires that you do most of your own searching and follow-up. Match.com sends members selected profiles of possible strong matches each week that their computerized service selects out of the thousands of potential matches. It is up to members to make the contact via email and check out each person on their own. But BUYER BEWARE, as most online dating sites merely provide a list and the opportunity to look into someone’s background on your own.

With internet dating it is easy for people to stretch the truth about age, weight, income and background. For all the success stories of online dating, there are many disappointments. You must use common sense, follow your intuition if something doesn’t feel right, and don’t even plan to meet someone who you sense isn’t being forthright with you.

If you decide to take the plunge and risk your heart once again, remember to follow a few simple rules at the outset:

* chat by phone before you meet in person

* always meet in a public place the first time and keep it simple, like meeting for coffee or a walk in the park

* use your own car so you are free to leave when you
feel you want to end the meeting

* persevere—it may take scores of dates with strangers before you meet someone compatible. And if you’re lucky you might even find love.

By Mary McCallum, COASEV July 2004

http://www.coasevt.org/senior_sense_7_04.html

Are You Ready To Find Love?


Online Dating Website Based On Aura.

LoveColors is an exciting new online dating site – a great new way to find your ideal partner based on your love color compatibility! Sign up now for FREE! Enjoy FULL ACCESS to the site while we are growing our membership. Communicate with members, watch all videos, and more.

This Online Dating Site Works!

More than ever before, finding love online is not only possible, but probable. LoveColors offers a fresh, new approach to matchmaking online by providing fascinating and valuable insight into the true essence of people.

Find & Date Singles Online.

LoveColors is proud to offer a singles dating site that has been created by an expert who has more than 27 years of experience successfully coaching and helping people create, nurture, and preserve their relationships.

A New Free Online Dating Service!

Although LoveColors is one of the newest online dating singles sites, there are already great friendships developing and people finding new love on the site. Watch Pamala Oslie’s helpful videos describing in detail each of the aura color personalities. Love Colors is a free singles dating site that offers a unique and compelling way to meet the love of your life.

A New Way To Discover Love.

Inside you will also find a treasure chest of amazing videos that help you learn insightful, interesting, and helpful information about yourself and others. We at LoveColors believe that the better you know yourself, your personality, needs, priorities, and motivations in life, the more successful you will be finding your most compatible partner.

Online Dating Service Based On Aura Compatibility.

LoveColors is an exciting new way to find your ideal partner. Have you ever felt drawn to some people – you wanted to be near them? You’re feeling their energy – their aura. LoveColors matches people based on the personality traits & qualities of the different aura colors. LoveColors has so much to offer – and right now it’s free during Beta testing!

Get Real Results Fast.

LoveColors members represent a diverse cross section of people around the world. They are people who share common goals; are gay and straight; are your friends, neighbors and co-workers; and who live near and far. LoveColors.com will enable you to better understand your own personality traits and your most compatible match based on your aura colors. There are few free matchmaking online services that offer such thorough insights on personality traits.

Online Dating & Aura Matchmaking.

At LoveColors you can discover your aura colors and what they reveal about you. Learn which aura color personalities are most compatible with you. Learn how to find true love and create a lasting partnership. It’s rare to find a free singles dating site that offers a huge library of video content to support and coach its members through the online matchmaking process.

Sign Up For Free Membership Today!

Answer the Love Colors Questionnaire and determine your personal aura colors. Then read the written descriptions and consult the compatibility chart to see which colors are most compatible with yours. Become a LoveColors member and meet local singles by clicking the red buttons on the bottom of the screen.

Local Singles Online. Free To Join!

LoveColors.com offers a brand new way to experience matchmaking online and meeting singles online. They have made the process of Internet dating much more enjoyable. Meeting singles online and finding the love of your life has never been easier or more fun.

Looking For True Love?

Pamala Oslie, author of LIFE COLORS and LOVE COLORS, was encouraged by her clients around the world to develop this singles dating site based on the compatibility of the aura color personalities. Meet people from all over the world (i.e. from the United States of America, Canada, Ireland, New Zealand, or the United Kingdom and many more).

Internet dating is the NEW way to find a mate.

One of the benefits of online social networking is the ability to become a part of a vibrant community of like-minded people who share similar values and beliefs. You will find that people on LoveColors are truly interested in meeting quality people.

LoveColors aim to set new standards for free online dating.

LoveColors members share common dreams and goals; embrace humanity and spirituality; and are seeking a safe, nurturing, progressive Internet dating service. We encourage you to get to know the other people in this community. Search for people with similar or different aura colors, then exchange ideas, experiences, and perspectives with one another.

How Accurate Are The Aura Colors?

People comment how amazing the accuracy of the color descriptions are, and how much they validate and confirm their own personalities, priorities, and inner desires. The color descriptions also offer great insight into the personalities of potential life partners.

Does it cost money?

Zero. Zilch. Nada. Simply create your personal profile. Upload photos to maximize your chances of finding a date. Describe your ideal partner. Then LoveColors will get to work finding your most compatible matches. You can also browse the other members by user name, by color selections, or by other qualities. Email or wave to people, choose Favorites, send Friend Requests and more – all for free during the beta testing period.

How To Get Started?

You can communicate with your matches and take full advantage of this unique Internet dating service. Communicating with others is an important step toward finding true love. Begin today by becoming a member of LoveColors! Finding love online is just a keystroke way. Click the links below to get started and discover a deep understanding of your most compatible color personalities.

Are you seeking a Woman?

click here to find love

Are you seeking a Man?

MatchMaking Online – Is It Safe?

Matchmaking Online

Cyber-dating is the wave of the future. The people who use online matchmaking services tend to be well-educated and well-employed. They are busy professionals who have found that meeting potential partners online is a way to fit romance into the increasingly hectic pace of life in the 21st century.

An online relationship is not like dating the girl next door or meeting your aunt’s cute dentist. Cyberspace Romances can help you understand the psychological aspects. There’s also the safety factor – we’ve all heard the horror stories of the online boyfriend who turned out to be a stalker. Check out these tips for online dating safety at Alternative Connections and the Seattle Post-Intelligencer before beginning a relationship.

Once you’re ready to look, start your search at one of the following sites. There are two ways to meet your match. Some of the sites function as a traditional dating service, allowing you to contact prospective dates (or them to contact you) via e-mail, snail mail or phone. Others feature chat rooms where you can instantly talk to the people in whom you’re interested. Several are free, but others require that you purchase a subscription to view contact information or to take advantage of special features.

By http://www.peoplespot.com/features/matchmaking.htm

Are You Ready To Find Love?

People on this site are passionately engaged in the performing arts, humanitarian, political, and global causes (Violets); education, care-taking, and counseling fields (Blues); sports, the healing arts, creativity, and physical activities (Yellows); finance, commerce, and entrepreneurial businesses (Greens); and many, many other occupations and activities. Our members are also interested in understanding the aura color personalities and discovering how the information can be used in their personal and professional lives.


Online Dating Website Based On Aura.

LoveColors is an exciting new online dating site – a great new way to find your ideal partner based on your love color compatibility! Sign up now for FREE! Enjoy FULL ACCESS to the site while we are growing our membership. Communicate with members, watch all videos, and more.

This Online Dating Site Works!

More than ever before, finding love online is not only possible, but probable. LoveColors offers a fresh, new approach to matchmaking online by providing fascinating and valuable insight into the true essence of people.

Find & Date Singles Online.

LoveColors is proud to offer a singles dating site that has been created by an expert who has more than 27 years of experience successfully coaching and helping people create, nurture, and preserve their relationships.

A New Free Online Dating Service!

Although LoveColors is one of the newest online dating singles sites, there are already great friendships developing and people finding new love on the site. Watch Pamala Oslie’s helpful videos describing in detail each of the aura color personalities. Love Colors is a free singles dating site that offers a unique and compelling way to meet the love of your life.

A New Way To Discover Love.

Inside you will also find a treasure chest of amazing videos that help you learn insightful, interesting, and helpful information about yourself and others. We at LoveColors believe that the better you know yourself, your personality, needs, priorities, and motivations in life, the more successful you will be finding your most compatible partner.

Online Dating Service Based On Aura Compatibility.

LoveColors is an exciting new way to find your ideal partner. Have you ever felt drawn to some people – you wanted to be near them? You’re feeling their energy – their aura. LoveColors matches people based on the personality traits & qualities of the different aura colors. LoveColors has so much to offer – and right now it’s free during Beta testing!

Get Real Results Fast.

LoveColors members represent a diverse cross section of people around the world. They are people who share common goals; are gay and straight; are your friends, neighbors and co-workers; and who live near and far. LoveColors.com will enable you to better understand your own personality traits and your most compatible match based on your aura colors. There are few free matchmaking online services that offer such thorough insights on personality traits.

Online Dating & Aura Matchmaking.

At LoveColors you can discover your aura colors and what they reveal about you. Learn which aura color personalities are most compatible with you. Learn how to find true love and create a lasting partnership. It’s rare to find a free singles dating site that offers a huge library of video content to support and coach its members through the online matchmaking process.

Sign Up For Free Membership Today!

Answer the Love Colors Questionnaire and determine your personal aura colors. Then read the written descriptions and consult the compatibility chart to see which colors are most compatible with yours. Become a LoveColors member and meet local singles by clicking the red buttons on the bottom of the screen.

Local Singles Online. Free To Join!

LoveColors.com offers a brand new way to experience matchmaking online and meeting singles online. They have made the process of Internet dating much more enjoyable. Meeting singles online and finding the love of your life has never been easier or more fun.

Looking For True Love?

Pamala Oslie, author of LIFE COLORS and LOVE COLORS, was encouraged by her clients around the world to develop this singles dating site based on the compatibility of the aura color personalities. Meet people from all over the world (i.e. from the United States of America, Canada, Ireland, New Zealand, or the United Kingdom and many more).

Internet dating is the NEW way to find a mate.

One of the benefits of online social networking is the ability to become a part of a vibrant community of like-minded people who share similar values and beliefs. You will find that people on LoveColors are truly interested in meeting quality people.

LoveColors aim to set new standards for free online dating.

LoveColors members share common dreams and goals; embrace humanity and spirituality; and are seeking a safe, nurturing, progressive Internet dating service. We encourage you to get to know the other people in this community. Search for people with similar or different aura colors, then exchange ideas, experiences, and perspectives with one another.

How Accurate Are The Aura Colors?

People comment how amazing the accuracy of the color descriptions are, and how much they validate and confirm their own personalities, priorities, and inner desires. The color descriptions also offer great insight into the personalities of potential life partners.

Does it cost money?

Zero. Zilch. Nada. Simply create your personal profile. Upload photos to maximize your chances of finding a date. Describe your ideal partner. Then LoveColors will get to work finding your most compatible matches. You can also browse the other members by user name, by color selections, or by other qualities. Email or wave to people, choose Favorites, send Friend Requests and more – all for free during the beta testing period.

How To Get Started?

You can communicate with your matches and take full advantage of this unique Internet dating service. Communicating with others is an important step toward finding true love. Begin today by becoming a member of LoveColors! Finding love online is just a keystroke way. Click the links below to get started and discover a deep understanding of your most compatible color personalities.

Are you seeking a Woman?

click here to find love

Are you seeking a Man?

clickherebutton

Matchmaker Online. Reviews for Local & International Dating Services 2011

Matchmaker. Online Dating!
The term ‘matchmaker’ simply refers to a person who attempts to match 2 people together in the hope that they will form a relationship which leads to friendship and hopefully marriage. When it comes to online dating, it is the site and its available resources that act as the matchmaker for today’s lonely hearts. The plethora of teenage and adult match maker online services means that everyone should be able to find someone, no matter who they are, where they live, their age, creed, colour, or name, ad infinitum.

It’s hard work hunting down a new partner (for want of a better expression) in the real world, which is why the matchmaker online dating services have become so popular in recent years. In the early days of online personals, even the best dating websites were far too broad. Nowadays we have what is termed as ‘niche dating’ which has really helped singles to quickly find compatible partners. The ‘niche’ matchmaker online is smart dating, as it helps members to cut to the chase so to speak.

So if you’re interested in the online match makers, then reading Reviews (such as the ones found on this site), is a great way to find the best online dating sites which suite your needs specifically.

By http://www.datesallowed.com/matchmaker.htm

Staying Afloat on the Yule Tide: Suggestions for Sailing Solo

When was the last time you saw an advertisement depicting a single person whooping it up in front of their Yule log?

If your answer is never, it’s no surprise.

The holidays are about family, friends, spouses, children and parties, right? So what if you’re single, recently out of a relationship, childless or live far from home? According to our national media (and every myth about the holidays), you’re destined to be lonely and miserable. However, many of us who are, in fact, single, divorced, or live at a distance from family and friends have found ways to not only keep ourselves busy during the holidays, but to actually enjoy ourselves. Remarkable, but true!

Plan Early

From the mellow to the exotic, there are endless ways to spend your holidays alone – without being lonely.

If you know you’ll be alone on Thanksgiving, Christmas or any other family-centric holiday, plan ahead. There are two major planning options; either:

  1. Arrange to be with other people or
  2. Set up activities for yourself.

Get Invited

Just because you always went to your husband’s family for Thanksgiving and now you’re divorced doesn’t mean you can’t share a drumstick and the post-dinner turkey-bloat with a bunch of fun folks.

Let people know you’ll be alone. Tell friends or colleagues or a local religious leader that you’re interested in participating in an organized activity and doors will surely open and herald you into a home, church, synagogue or community center. Find out if you have any unknown relatives living locally and expand your view of who is in your family.

Your friends will surely be happy to have you join them. Don’t get caught up in the idea that “holidays are only for family.” The spirit of the season embraces everyone but a Scrooge! You’ll be doing others a favor by encouraging them to open their hearts to you in celebration of this festive time of year.

Celebrate with Virtual Strangers

You’ll be amazed at how many people spend the holidays alone. All you have to do is reach out, make a phone call or two, and you can find them; then nobody has to be alone! The easiest way to spend the holidays with other people is to volunteer. You can call a homeless shelter, a retirement home, a residential center for children, an animal shelter, or many other places. If there is a college or university near you, call the student activities office, as they often arrange a variety of volunteering options at local sites. Volunteer opportunities range from delivering hot meals and warm cheer to housebound elderly to cooking mashed potatoes for 150 homeless adults or reading to their children. One of my most memorable Christmas days was spent delivering hot meals to senior centers. I sat for an hour that day with a 97-year-old woman who told me stories about her childhood in Prague. She told me that she didn’t have many visitors anymore, and I know that we brightened up each other’s holiday.

You’re Never Alone When You’ve Got Yourself

My friend Theresa is single. This year, she made elaborate plans for Thanksgiving. She was going to join a hiking club for a long weekend of activities, including Thanksgiving Day dinner. But a week before the holiday, she decided to stay home. For Thanksgiving, she arranged a brunch with other single friends and, during the weekend, she worked on an art project she hadn’t touched in six months, went jogging, took yoga classes, and spent a lot of time alone, enjoying her own company. “It was unexpected,” she told me. “I’d always needed to be around people to feel happy. But this year I really enjoyed staying home, nesting, and taking care of myself.”

by Beth Greenberg, MA

Are You Ready To Find Love?

People on this site are passionately engaged in the performing arts, humanitarian, political, and global causes (Violets); education, care-taking, and counseling fields (Blues); sports, the healing arts, creativity, and physical activities (Yellows); finance, commerce, and entrepreneurial businesses (Greens); and many, many other occupations and activities. Our members are also interested in understanding the aura color personalities and discovering how the information can be used in their personal and professional lives.


Online Dating Website Based On Aura.

LoveColors is an exciting new online dating site – a great new way to find your ideal partner based on your love color compatibility!  Sign up now for FREE! Enjoy FULL ACCESS to the site while we are growing our membership. Communicate with members, watch all videos, and more.

This Online Dating Site Works!

More than ever before, finding love online is not only possible, but probable. LoveColors offers a fresh, new approach to matchmaking online by providing fascinating and valuable insight into the true essence of people.

Find & Date Singles Online.

LoveColors is proud to offer a singles dating site that has been created by an expert who has more than 27 years of experience successfully coaching and helping people create, nurture, and preserve their relationships.

A New Free Online Dating Service!

Although LoveColors is one of the newest online dating singles sites, there are already great friendships developing and people finding new love on the site. Watch Pamala Oslie’s helpful videos describing in detail each of the aura color personalities. Love Colors is a free singles dating site that offers a unique and compelling way to meet the love of your life.

A New Way To Discover Love.

Inside you will also find a treasure chest of amazing videos that help you learn insightful, interesting, and helpful information about yourself and others. We at LoveColors believe that the better you know yourself, your personality, needs, priorities, and motivations in life, the more successful you will be finding your most compatible partner.

Online Dating Service Based On Aura Compatibility.

LoveColors is an exciting new way to find your ideal partner.  Have you ever felt drawn to some people – you wanted to be near them? You’re feeling their energy – their aura. LoveColors matches people based on the personality traits & qualities of the different aura colors. LoveColors has so much to offer – and right now it’s free during Beta testing!

Get Real Results Fast.

LoveColors members represent a diverse cross section of people around the world. They are people who share common goals; are gay and straight; are your friends, neighbors and co-workers; and who live near and far. LoveColors.com will enable you to better understand your own personality traits and your most compatible match based on your aura colors. There are few free matchmaking online services that offer such thorough insights on personality traits.

Online Dating & Aura Matchmaking.

At LoveColors you can discover your aura colors and what they reveal about you. Learn which aura color personalities are most compatible with you.  Learn how to find true love and create a lasting partnership. It’s rare to find a free singles dating site that offers a huge library of video content to support and coach its members through the online matchmaking process.

Sign Up For Free Membership Today!

Answer the Love Colors Questionnaire and determine your personal aura colors. Then read the written descriptions and consult the compatibility chart to see which colors are most compatible with yours. Become a LoveColors member and meet local singles by clicking the red buttons on the bottom of the screen.

Local Singles Online. Free To Join!

LoveColors.com offers a brand new way to experience matchmaking online and meeting singles online. They have made the process of Internet dating much more enjoyable. Meeting singles online and finding the love of your life has never been easier or more fun.

Looking For True Love?

Pamala Oslie, author of LIFE COLORS and LOVE COLORS, was encouraged by her clients around the world to develop this singles dating site based on the compatibility of the aura color personalities.  Meet people from all over the world (i.e. from the United States of America, Canada, Ireland, New Zealand, or the United Kingdom and many more).

Internet dating is the NEW way to find a mate.

One of the benefits of online social networking is the ability to become a part of a vibrant community of like-minded people who share similar values and beliefs. You will find that people on LoveColors are truly interested in meeting quality people.

LoveColors aim to set new standards for free online dating.

LoveColors members share common dreams and goals; embrace humanity and spirituality; and are seeking a safe, nurturing, progressive Internet dating service.  We encourage you to get to know the other people in this community. Search for people with similar or different aura colors, then exchange ideas, experiences, and perspectives with one another.

How Accurate Are The Aura Colors?

People comment how amazing the accuracy of the color descriptions are, and how much they validate and confirm their own personalities, priorities, and inner desires. The color descriptions also offer great insight into the personalities of potential life partners.

Does it cost money?

Zero. Zilch. Nada.  Simply create your personal profile. Upload photos to maximize your chances of finding a date. Describe your ideal partner. Then LoveColors will get to work finding your most compatible matches. You can also browse the other members by user name, by color selections, or by other qualities. Email or wave to people, choose Favorites, send Friend Requests and more – all for free during the beta testing period.

How To Get Started?

You can communicate with your matches and take full advantage of this unique Internet dating service. Communicating with others is an important step toward finding true love. Begin today by becoming a member of LoveColors! Finding love online is just a keystroke way.  Click the links below to get started and discover a deep understanding of your most compatible color personalities.

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Member Testimonials

Online Dating Testimonials"I signed up for your amazing site and filled out your questionnaire. I am completely blown away by the questions and accuracy of the videos and results. I am a Yellow/Violet and I feel like someone reached into my soul and understood who I was for the first time ever. I've never felt so gotten in all my life."
Tana

"Pam's insight and ability to read my aura (violet, yellow, blue) and that of my future soul mate has been a great help to me as I navigate the dating world. Knowing my "love colors" gives me a deeper knowledge of not only myself but the person who matches me and it allows me to be more discerning in my choices. I now have a much more positive and relaxed outlook on attracting the man I am meant to be with. My new clarity makes me feel as if he's standing right beside me, just waiting for me to turn around and notice him." -Sara (winner of the free reading with Pam)

Testimonial"Pamala is a gifted professional who magically receives insights and wisdom, which she shares with individuals from around the world. I have sought her counsel over the past several years and her advice has been incredibly accurate. I highly recommend her work and books to anyone seeking to better understand themselves and their patterns, both personally and professionally."
- Pamela Mokler

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"I love the questionnaires - they help me discover myself on a deeper level. I LOVE the video explanations on this site - they've reconnected me to my true violet self and purpose... I love this site." - Hathomas111

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