Blues and Tans in Relationship: This is a common union. Because Blues desire a monogamous, committed relationship, they are often drawn to the Tans’ stability and reliability. If both are looking for a traditional marriage,  then this relationship can work. The two Tans that are the most compatible with Blues are Sensitive Tans and Abstract Tans. They tend to be a bit more emotional than the other two Tans.

With Tans, the Blues have the comfort and satisfaction of knowing they have stable, reliable, and committed mates. Tans know they have loyal, loving, and devoted partners. Commitment, loyalty, and security are the rewards for this couple. Both fill different roles in the relationship, however, both must realize that each sees the world differently, processes feelings differently, and has different priorities.

What can potentially develop in this relationship is a communication problem. Blues communicate from the heart — they want to bond emotionally with their mates. Tans, on the other hand, process intellectually; they prefer to analyze a situation and come up with a rational solution while typically keeping their emotions to themselves. This can frustrate Blues, who feel isolated from the deepest part of their mates. Tans do not intellectually understand the Blues’ emotional unpredictability and constant need to discuss the relationship and their feelings. Often Tans become too emotionally unfulfilling for a Blue. If the Blue partner can become emotionally secure, and the Tan partner can become emotionally available and communicative, then these two can have a long, fulfilling relationship.