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Happy Valentine’s Day! It’s my favorite day so I’m sending you fun & wonderful Valentine wishes that all your dreams come true this day– and every day.

I’ve Created a Forum on Aura Colors!

So many of you requested that I create a place where you could meet one another and chat about the aura colors and other topics. So I’ve created a forum or chat room for you to enjoy. I will join you from time to time. I hope you enjoy this space and will create a fun and lively place to connect with each other. Just click on the “Forum” link on the top of my website www.AuraColors.com.  In-joy! Pam

Some ideas for you consider:

I know that you Violets are going through an extra challenging time right now. Since we’re in the Violet age, many of you are being “squeezed.” Maybe you can help each other come up with ideas on how to flourish in (not just survive) these times.

You Blues are such loving and supportive counselors. Maybe you can offer some guidance and compassion for people who might be struggling. Or since you’re also so psychic, maybe you can offer some intuitive insights?

Yellows – you’re so fun and humorous. This could be a great way to help us all laugh and see the light side of life.

Indigos, Lavenders, Crystals, & Magentas – you see life from such a creative, spiritual, and unique perspective, maybe you can weigh in on what you believe are the positive transformations happening on the planet and offer creative, out-of-the-box solutions.

Tans & Greens – maybe you know some practical steps we can take to help us feel more secure and stable while life around us appears so shaky and unstable.

Reds & Oranges – since you usually take practical, physical actions to solve problems, what have you been doing to make your life work?

On today’s radio show, Dec 28, 5:00 – 6:00 PM PST, I will be taking calls and my special guest will be Kim Stanwood Terranova “CONSCIOUSLY CREATING 2012.” You can call in toll free at 866-564-1290 and listen via my website www.AuraColors.com or in Santa Barbara on 1290 AM Talk Radio. This will be an exciting and inspirational show on creating your ideal life in 2012. Please join us!

I will be taking calls & discussing different topics on my radio show on Wednesday, Dec 7 from 5:00 – 6:00 PM PST. If you would like a free psychic reading, call toll free 866-564-1290 (in Santa Barbara, call 564-1290.) You can listen via www.AuraColors.com or 1290 AM in SB. The goal of the show is to help you live a fulfilling & joyful life. I hope you can join us. Happy holiday season to you!

Some of you Greens are experiencing challenges right now with your work and finances – maybe you’re unfulfilled, struggling, or out of work completely. Here are helpful tips to help you make it through and maybe even thrive.  

A lot of you Greens have been laid off or your work and income have taken a dip – real estate agents, stockbrokers, financial planners, loan officers, bankers, non-profit fundraisers, business owners, and more. During the Depression – more Greens took their lives because they defined themselves by their jobs and their money. Although Greens tend to take failure harder than most others, keep in mind that many Greens in the past have been seriously challenged or failed at least once in their lives – even declaring bankruptcy – before they succeeded. They still knew they would never win if they didn’t aim high and go for it. Some well-known Greens include Bill Gates, Donald Trump, Barbara Walters, David Letterman, and Lucille Ball.

During these challenging times, this may be the perfect time for you Greens to consider furthering your education – going for your Masters, PhD, MBA, etc so you feel more powerful and confident with your level of expertise. Or consider that this could be your opportunity to become an entrepreneur. You’re smart, quick thinking, good at developing plans, organizing offices, figuring out systems and patterns, and more. If you put the same amount of hard work, long hours and energy into your own business as you have been putting into someone else’s business – you could have a good shot at achieving success. Greens do have a fear of failure, of being humiliated, and of not having money – so you’ll have to overcome those fears. Calculate the obstacles and figure out how to get through or around them. 

These are beneficial steps for Greens to take:

• Get clear what you really want to be and have in your life.
• Make a list of your desires and goals. (Greens often accomplish the things they write on a list.)
• Research what it would take to accomplish those goals – including learning what it took others to achieve similar goals. Weigh the risks – but also look at your life if you don’t do this.
• Make a plan, including the financial requirements. Ask yourself if you want to do this alone or find business partner(s), or if you need to take classes or further your education to accomplish your goals?
• Take action! Greens need to take action if they are to feel empowered or accomplish anything. 
• Take responsibility for your own life and situation. Blaming others is common for out-of-power Greens – but it doesn’t accomplish anything, it keeps you stuck and dis-empowered. 
• If challenges occur, review these steps, adjust your plan if necessary, and then persist. Successful Greens are those who didn’t give up. Greens are typically the most tenacious and persistent of the aura colors. (Stubbornness is not the same thing as being intelligently persistent and determined to accomplish your goals.)  
• Learn, grow, and move forward. Learn, grow, and move forward. Own your power, think of options, overcome obstacles, develop, revise plans as needed, learn and grow. 
• Also – appreciate what you’ve learned and already accomplished. You Greens are typically perfectionists – which can hold you back because of a fear of doing it wrong, or make your successes less than fulfilling since nothing is ever good enough.

Greens can accomplish anything they set their minds to – so set your mind and commit to achieving your goals. You’ll probably be disappointed in yourself if you play it too small and too safe. You’re smart – go for it.

You Crystals are much more sensitive to energies than most of the other aura color personalities. So when people become more stressed and fearful than usual, it can really affect you. You can feel fearful – and not always understand why.

One of the best ways for you to cope with this intense energy is to spend more time than usual in quiet reflection and meditation. It’s important for you to stay calm and centered. Other people can frantically rush through life, meeting deadlines, multi-tasking, and more. But you’re not at your best when you try to live that way, when you try to keep up with that fast pace. The best actions for you are to be quiet, keep it simple, focus, breathe, and keep things in perspective. Remember what’s important to you Crystals – your deep connection to spirit.

Because you are healers, your greatest gifts to the world are to:

1) Keep your energy calm – don’t buy into the drama, fear and panic

2) Pray with optimism and keep positive visions, send loving thoughts and healing energy to others around the world. (That does make a difference, it works – whether or not science has discovered that yet!)

3) Connect with your deeper, quieter, inner voice daily so you “remember” and KNOW that we are all in good hands; that we are growing, changing, and evolving for the good of all life (labor pains can be challenging – but a new life is ahead)

4) Hold the energy of “trust” and “faith” for all of us – especially when others lose their faith

Your greatest strengths are your clear & quiet healing energy, and your deep spiritual connection. If you lose your connection with that greater “Source” – you will lose your balance and lose your way like others are doing. 

While other aura colors need to play big, to have a louder voice, to take strong action and be in front of the masses as leaders and champions, you’re at your best when you are quiet – meditating on good things for humanity, sending out prayers of love, peace, and harmony. Your work is very important – to quietly balance out and calm down the intense, fast-paced, and panicked energy that is occurring on the planet. Trust you’re making a difference. 

And this is good information for others too – even if they’re not Crystals. You can teach them through your calm connection and trust in Source.  

Thanks to todays highly technological age, venues for dating that transcends the usual bar, coffee shop, or club is available. Welcome to the world of online dating, where you can date more than just those who are near you, but even people from around the world. From the safety and comfort of your own home, you can virtually meet and chat with anyone in the world if you wish, but of course, as in the real world, there are a few tips that you need to know to safely date and build a relationship online. In addition, there are a variety of tricks to the trade that can help lead you to a fruitful online dating experience.

Creating Your Profile

Your profile is your physical manifestation in the online world. It contains information about who you are, what you look like, and what you’re looking for. Your online profile should include information that will help potential partners determine if you’re a suitable date, but it shouldn’t ever contain your life story. Remember, some information about yourself are better off told in person and wont do you justice if you just listed them down on the Internet. You can choose to list down your occupation, your hobbies, your likes and dislikes, but try your hardest not to bring up past relationships, things about your family, or other topics that are too personal. These are the things you talk to your date about when you meet in person.

Making the Contact

After viewing a profile that interests you, the next step is to let the person know you’re interested. Remember, refusing to contact people just cause you believe they should flock towards you will not give you a fruitful online dating experience.  Don’t be afraid to make the first move. You should have better courage since the contact process is done virtually and not in real life. You have plenty of options on how to make contact. You can wave a person or send your own personal message. For a really strong entrance, mention one or two things that interested you with the persons profile and tell him or her that you’d appreciate a reply so you could get to know each other better.

Things You Need to Know

A very important thing you need to know about dating online is that things are not always how they appear. On the Internet where dating is done online and not in person, people are more comfortable to lie and make things up about themselves. A guy could easily tell you hes a rich doctor looking for a partner, only to burst your bubble when you guys meet and realize that the guy is a starving artist. Hence, know as much as you can about your prospective partner before planning a meet up. You don’t want to waste your time and energy with poseurs.

The Internet has made so many things possible, and one of those that we can truly thank the Internet for is online dating. Just imagine being able to date people from across the world, but of course, as in the real world, your prospective partner has to like you as well. Online dating is fun and easy, but since you’re conducting a personal affair online, it is highly advised that you do things in the safest way possible. The Internet is studded with people who can dupe you into doing something, steal your identity, or even trick you into giving out your bank account. Its easy to fall prey to love, especially if the other party is a professional trickster. To keep safe while online dating, here are a couple of tips you must remember.

Keep Records

When it comes to online dating, do not trust anyone. Well, at the beginning anyway. One good way to gauge if the person you’re talking to is trustworthy or not is to keep records. Save all your photographs, conversations, emails, and text messages. It might seem ridiculous to do this, but doing this will help you search for warning signs and inconsistencies with the information your prospective partner is giving you. Did he suddenly change his birth date? Why are all of his or her photos faceless? When it comes to online dating, it is essential that you test the waters first before you actually dive into it.

Warning Signs

There are various warning signs that you can look for to know if its time to move on. If your partner avoids direct questions, theres a huge chance that he or she is hiding something from you. If your partner is inconsistent with the information he or she gives, theres a huge chance they’re just making things up. If your partner displays inappropriate or awkward behavior even after countless requests to stop, then you simply must move on.

How to Meet Safely

So you’ve chosen the person of your dreams and now its time to meet up. You might be shaking in apprehension or nervousness, but you should never forget being safe. When meeting for the first time, it is highly essential that you meet in a public place instead of meeting in you place or his. Never, ever tell your partner where you live. Before heading out, tell one person who knows you well and trusts who you’re going to be and what time they should expect you to get back or hear from you.

Violet aura color personalities are being challenged right now. Because it’s a Violet age, you Violets are in your power time. This is when you’re supposed to be “stepping up” – accomplishing your bigger purposes & visions. And you Violets are feeling it. You probably first heard your inner voice telling you something felt wrong – that you needed to change or do something different with you life. If you follow what it’s telling you, everything will some how work out. If you don’t listen to that inner voice, you will get a more obvious nudge or wake up call. If you don’t pay attention to that nudge – the wake up calls will get much louder! What is it going to take to get your attention – that something is wrong and your soul wants more?

About 90% of my clients these days are Violets! That’s huge! They’re feeling squeezed – most didn’t listen to that small inner voice. Now they’re coming in with depression, serious health issues, divorces, deaths, and other dramas. If you feel stuck or unsure how you’re going to accomplish your dreams, if you haven’t found a way to move forward, you’re most likely getting the rug pulled out from under you to make you move forward. 

You Violets have always had big dreams. You need to live “outside the box.”  It doesn’t matter if others don’t dream or envision that way – you do and there are reasons for that.

1)   You didn’t want to be bored this lifetime – you wanted to have a bigger life, a more extraordinary experience. So what you do this lifetime needs to be extraordinary. The bigger challenges lead to the bigger payoffs. Bigger mountains to climb bring greater & more inspiring vistas at the top. And because you have so much compassion and depth to you (even if you’re currently frustrated with humanity – that’s common for Violets) you need to do something that improves the quality of life for others. You need to help or inspire people in a big way – to improve the quality of life for others. That is a tall order. If you get to the end of your life, or leave the planet without fulfilling your reason for coming here – you’ll most likely have regrets. (As much as you think you’ll be relieved to be done with the struggle – you’ll also wonder what this lifetime was about and if you could’ve done something else.)

2)   You Violets typically would prefer not to “have to” come back to this plane, this planet again. You’ve had so many lifetimes – it can get boring, hard, or overwhelming here for you. This plane usually feels dense and tough to you. So you need to tie up all lose ends, resolve any issues you have with people, move through your frustration, not give up in hopelessness – because if you leave the planet that way, you’ll make yourself come back here again. (Belief systems aside – that is THE worse thing for a Violet to hear.)

Advice on how to move forward and live your potential:

1.     First, listen to your inner voice

2.     If you think you don’t know how to accomplish what that voice is telling you to do – imagine someone coming to you with the same dream and confusion, and see what you would advise them to do. You Violets are some of the world’s best advice-givers. You just need to listen to your own advice.

3.     Be around people who are doing what you want to do, be around the energy of what you want to do with your life. It will make it more real for you. You pick up the energy of the environment around you. Chose the people & environment that will inspire you to believe in your vision – to see that it’s possible to achieve!

4.     Violets benefit from mentors. Find people or at least read biographies about people (other Violets) who inspire you and then do what they did – or something similar. Did they have courage? Did they not give up on their dreams? Did they go the extra mile? Did they take it step by step – and eventually find themselves living their dreams? What inspires you about them? Be and act that same way.

5.     Meditate – Violets need to have quiet time to connect with their vision and higher guidance. If you can’t sit still – take a walk, listen to inspirational or calming music, do something to quiet that critical voice so you can get out of your own way.

These are few steps to help you Violets live your purpose and your dreams. I have written so much more in my books Life Colors, Love Colors, and Make Your Dreams Come True. I have created guided imagery meditation CDs and MP3s. I’m doing what I can to support you Violets to live your passion and potential. Go for it! If you fall – just get up again. Giving up will lead to depression and self-disappointment. That’s worse than failing.